My Spheres of Influence

If you’re prone to hypothetical worry (i.e., the ‘what if?’ thoughts), you may find it helpful to practice noticing these thoughts and then redirecting your attention to things within your control.

Research shows that when we shift our focus to what we can control, we see meaningful and lasting differences in our wellbeing, health, and performance.

Remember: You cannot stop hypothetical worries from occurring, but you can control your response to them.

Within My Control

Building resilience

Following the latest information and advice

Focusing on what’s important to me

My information diet

My routine

Relaxation

Cultivating connection

Eating well

Exercising

Seeking and offering support

Voting and activism

Outside My Control

Other people’s decisions

Other people’s health

The news

The government’s actions

Schools opening or closing

The state of the healthcare system

Flights and holidays being cancelled

Traffic

Public transport

Aging

The weather

Source: thewellnesssociety.org


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