
- Some researchers say there are some ways in which birth order impacts your child’s future. Here is a list of those things of things that may impact your child’s future, based on your family’ structure.
- 1 – Allergies
- There does seem to be a link between your child’s birth order and a tendency to get bronchial asthma. Those children who are classified as later in the birth order had an increased risk of early childhood bronchitis episodes. The risk decreased once the child hit school age. So, researchers think that the influence of birth order affected the type of allergic disease a child may have in early childhood. Plus, the child’s physical development and immune system development after birth came into play.
- 2 – Intellect
- A firstborn child gets preferential treatment from their parents. This one- on- one treatment could slightly affect a child’s intellect. Firstborns often have a slightly higher IQ, but this isn’t proven entirely. Many researchers contribute this to the parents providing more mental stimulation to firstborns because they have the time and energy to give to the firstborn before other children arrive. Parents are more divided in their attention once they have multiple children.
- 3 – Perfectionistic behavior
- Some research found that first-born kids are more apt to be perfectionists. For these kids, parental involvement is strong. So, it’s thought that this could be due to parental influence. Birth order only contributed to being a perfectionist, because being born first gave parents more input into the child’s life since they are the only one. It was found that first-born kids have more personal and social demands put on them, which leads to perfectionist behavior.
- 4 – Become a CEO
- A National Institute of Health study in June 2020, researched the subject of whether first-borns are more likely to become CEO of a company. The researchers found that this is often the case not due to a higher cognitive ability, but more often due to the advantages that a first-born child has with their parents. There’s also no evidence that a firstborn CEO performs better. The firstborn advantage could be due more to not having an older brother, but this doesn’t seem to be the case if they had an older sister.
- Social norms often dictate so that first-borns are often given the family business. This was especially true in older CEOs. What is thought to be the biggest contributing factor in a child’s life instead of their birth order is their upbringing environment and their parents’ choices for them. These seem to have a bigger impact on a child’s later career choices.
- 5 – Thinness
- Your child’s birth order could have something to do with their thinness. In China, scientists studied sibling size and family structure, finding it could have an impact on overweight or obesity in children. But they had never studied if these things could impact a child’s thinness. So, they did a study this past August 2020 to find out if there was an association between sibling number, birth order and a number of younger or older siblings and being thin as a child. Results found that as the number of siblings and birth order increased and so did a child’s tendency to be thin. In a household with two kids, the second child is more apt to be thinner than the older child.
If you’re the youngest:
You’re more likely to be self-employed, even if your parents aren’t.
One group of psychologists found that last-borns develop a rebellious nature, and are more inclined to assume the risks that come with self-employment as they age.
You’re more likely to participate in risky activities.
Research suggests that laterborns are more likely to take risks and participate in dangerous sports. That explains why your youngest sibling wants to go skydiving so badly.
If you’re the middle child:
You’re more likely to help others.
One study says that middle children are more likely to exhibit “prosocial” behavior, meaning they’re altruistic and will put the needs of other people before their own.
If you’re the oldest or only child:
You’re more likely to succeed in conventional ways.
One psychologist explained that without siblings around, oldest and only children grow up surrounded by adults who are smarter than they are—and the best way to please them is through conventional successes.
You’re more likely to hold a leadership role at work.
Some research suggests that firstborns are more likely to become political leaders or CEOs. Only children and firs
borns identify better with their parents and authority, and therefore tend to be more conformist, academically inclined, and confident. These traits can manifest in the workplace when it comes to moving up the ranks.
Regardless of your birth order:
You’re likely to be be friends with someone with the same birth order as you.
One study shows that youngest children are likely to form close relationships youngest children, middle children with other middle children, and so on.
Source: womansday.com©
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