I hope you will find this site as a go-to resource on how to start, keep going and stop any conversation you can think of having. I hope you will find the articles, suggestions and tips valuable enough to visit here as much as you’d like.
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Ice-breaking tools-find out what motivates people.
The list implies that people want to make a personal connection, to feel comfortable and to be noticed.
What do you have in common with these people? Unusual clothes, hats, jewelry and body language. Surroundings such as books, statuary, furniture, and social things like food, size of crowd, energy level, etc.
Other topics for conversation:
Nostalgia-good memories of the past
Favorites-books, restaurants, movies
How to-e.g. deal with stress, make time to exercise, etc.
Common ground-both drinking coffee, in same building, in same line
This is my first_______. How do you do______.
How did you get involved in this line of work?
Do you have any tips on letting go of tension?
Keep a file of interesting topics, openers, and funny stories.
O-open your body language for your approach
D-deliver a wide-open and fast-paced grand opening
S-share your ideas generously
Sit or stand with an open, accepting posture
Look at the speaker
Ask for more information
Center questions on the speaker…Do you think, what would you advise
Respond to the speaker, repeat something you’ve heard
Sum up and show appreciation
Explain next step, if there is one
Shake hands and leave
It’s not rocket science. Consider this as conversation baby steps. Who knows, you might be a budding, silver-tongued conversationalist. Keep visiting this site for more steps.